Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Past Families


Sometimes we tend to forget where we come from. I don't mean from what town...but from our ancestors. Have you ever sat down and just wondered what your ancestors may have gone through to get us to where we are today?
What type of battles and hardships did they go through. How did they get to the United States of America? How did they die...and at what age... How did they travel when they did move... Where did they get their materials to build shelters for their families...


I know some of these answers for both my husband's ancestors and also for my ancestors. It can be fascinating to learn some of these things...but we don't think it is important when we are younger. Many times when it does finally peak your interest...it may be too late to learn about it. The people who knew..may have past on or can no longer remember clearly the details that would give you a look into the past.

I feel it is important to spend time with your parents...your aunts , uncles and especially any grandparents. Talk to them about their grandparents and their aunts and uncles. Listen closely to the stories they tell you - or better yet...tape them and take notes. They may find they feel that they know something that really matters. This may seem like it doesn't really matter - but let me point out to you ....your family member will feel like someone cares about their family, you will enjoy the visit, you will have learned a little about your family that you more than likely never knew..but most importantly - you will have spent time with someone you love who probably doesn't get visitors very often!


Take the time this weekend to call a family member and tell them you love them. You will feel good and they will feel great!


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